What anal sex feels like for men
At StraponFan we hear so many straight guys that are curious about pegging and what anal sex feels like for men. When it comes to sex there’s endless variations of stimulation methods, one is being male anal sex, which all essentially have the same: The orgasm! (and the pleasure while during of course).
Just look at women for an example. Most women won’t achieve an orgasm through regular penetration by a cock. A lot of men are not aware of this fact and just keep pushing thinking the glory of his big majestic fallos will do the magic. But absolutely by most want only comes from stimulation of her clitoris. For some women the magic is the guy licking her pussy. For some is when he’s using the fingers on her clitoris – for some women very slow and sensually and for other more rough. Other women reach their climax when the man is using either tongue and fingers on the clitoris while fingering her pussy with the other hand. And then you have women who enjoys a finger in the ass during or even fucked slow or rough anally – And women who doesn’t like for various reasons.
The point here is: We all have different ways of enjoyment during sex and there’s no shame in either on or the other. Anal sex for either men or woman is just the same: Another way of stimulation during sex!
Does anal sex feels different from a woman and man?
Yes it does. It’s actually much more pleasurable for a man than a woman! So don’t ask a woman if you want to know how anal feels for a man, because they really really really don’t know 🙂
Here’s the simple explanations:
The prostate
Inside you have the prostate at the size of a chestnut which basically produces the fluid for sperm. When the prostate gets stimulated by a strapon, fingers or a dildo it feels really really really good! If a woman (or a man) uses her fingers, finds the prostate and massage it feels like you go to heaven.
An experienced woman can easily find it and massage and play with, and doing so while stroking your cock you will end up with an orgasm like you have had before! Some even come with touching their cock but merely by the prostate massage!
7 Real life comments on the feel of anal penetration
It’s easy to provide a “technical” explanation of why and how anal sex stimulation fucking feels like, but there’s so many different reason why such pegging have certain sensations for each man. For some it’s purely the prostate stimulation and for other it’s about the powerplay and exchange of control between male and female. Each of us find it pleasurable in our own way, and none of there are wrong, make you gay, make you less of a man – It’s just SEX.
Listen to these guys and their very different reason to be turned on of pegging:
Samuel, 31:
“The best part of anal sex for is definitely the foreplay. The sensation of a tongue hitting the nerves in anus takes the experience to a different level. It just builds onto the anticipation for receiving, and for me that time in between is the hottest moments. Once she’s inside with her strap on, it feels like every nerve in my body is being stimulated. It’s the perfect balance of pain and mostly pleasure.”
Liam, 47:
“After getting sober again after a long time, sex was something that was kinda of new to me again. I felt like somewhat like virgin, but I still knew what to do. Being the bottom feels great without any inhalants, and it’s a lot more intimate than when I’m top.”
Anthony, 38:
“Analsex has always felt like a kind of stress relief to me. I’ve sometimes said ‘I need to get this hangover fucked out of me,’ because that’s how fantastic analsex feels like to me. With the right partner, it’s a sensational experience that can both completely make you relax and just let everything over to someone else,as well as put you to fucking work.”
James, 43:
“To me, receiving anal sex feels like becoming total vulnerable. It’s like having all your inner secrets laid bare in front of you. But it’s also euphoric and fabulous. Receiving analsex feels like discovering the power of your feminine side. It takes every unkind feeling or thought you’ve ever had about yourself, every slur anyone has ever called you, and puts an amount of enjoyment behind the ‘shame’ of sex. And in that moment, when you’re getting your guts rearranged, you feel sexy and powerful.”
Chris, 29:
“First of all, I’m a masochist. Not that all bottom sex has pain in it, but generally, there is some discomfort, especially when you start, and especially with larger dildos. But the discomfort usually goes away fast and is replaced with this feeling of being stretched and filled out. And that is what I love about the most—that ‘pressure’ feeling. It makes me hard and builds up the longer and harder I’m receiving as bottom. The feeling eventually takes over, until all I can think about is that pressure against my prostate and in my cock until I orgasm hard and cums a lot.”
Matthew 25:
“Anal play feels like both heaven and hell at the same time. It’s hard to explain why the sometimes ‘painful’ stretch or depth is arousing so much, but the feeling of a well-lubed bare strap on moving back and forth is incredible nice. I can feel my prostate being touched and massaged. Analsex gives you the feeling of that first glass of unsweetened glass of white wine on a hot spring day. It feels like the hot shower after a weekend of traveling. It’s orgasmic and perfect.”
Jamie, 32:
“Good anal sex is like eating a delicious meal that is too hot. Those first moments are filled with a slightly uncomfortable sensation mixed with bits of enjoyment. During this, you are bordering between regret, eagerness, anxiety, and pleasure. After a deep breath out and an inhale of determination, time passes and the meal cools. You then enter a state of delicious consumption as your booty devours the strap on.”
Is anal sex for men normal
Yes absolutely! Studies show that more than 50% of all men fantasize of femdom or other kind of domination. Pegging does not even mean that you have to me dominated but regardless, it’s very very normal. And just the fact that you’re reading this article, means that you’re more in touch with yourself that all these men who has the fantasy but suppress the desire and completely hide it away and is lying to himself.
If you look at studies and research of why men don’t want pegging and see how anal sex feels like, you will find that ta main reason for men is not that they’re are interested interested or want to try it. The reason is:
They are afraid!
This is a very small survey, and the conclusions must be made with that in mind. It may not be real representative! (Source: sexualalpha.com)
This particular graphic is dominated by a big bias towards homophobia. It’s impossible it’s this big in real life. However, IF we accept the statistic as true and combine the rows which are negative towards pegging, then the negative attitude is 37% of all the people who answered the survey. Combined columns which are positive towards male anal sex is 35%
So equally many men are positive to anal sex as there are men who is negative towards it!
HOWEVER: You have take this into account: How many of the negative people is actually more positive but are afraid to admit it and recognize it. ALSO: A very large number of people in the survey have answered “No explanation”. A portion of these people are probably positive as well but votes No Explanation for various reasons.
All in all I believe this: There’s more anal sex positives in the negative answers than these answers reflect. I believe that the true figure is that+50% are positive in this graph! Which also correspond with statistics showing that +50% of all men have a fantasy of being dominated.
Which positions are best for pegging
Every person has their own preference depending on a lots of different reasons.
However, most people find the missionary most pleasurable where you can look each other in your eyes. For the woman it’s a big par of here enjoyment to see your facial expression while pegging you. Usually it’s also in the missionary it’s least painful (if at all), when you’re new. Doggystyle is also among the most poular as is lying on the belly with your face down.
You might want to read our article about these three best positions for pegging (click the banner):
Also read more: https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/benefits-of-anal-sex (Healthline)