Pegging may be a taboo subject for many, but that does not make it any less popular among couples. That is why you also get this complete 2024 guide to pegging, which gives you answers to the most common questions and doubts about the subject. As with everything else in life, the beginning can be difficult.
It can be difficult to know where to start, what equipment to buy and, not least, how to actually have a good and pleasant experience. In this guide, we get into what it actually is, which pegging adult toys you can use and how you do it. It is therefore a good idea to read this 2024 guide on pegging if you are in doubt as to whether it is for you or just want to know more about the subject before you and your partner throw yourself into it.
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Strapon 2024 guide to pegging sex – What is it anyway?
Pegging is when the woman anal penetrates her male partner with a strapon dildo. It therefore gives the opportunity to change the familiar roles and therefore also provides a completely new experience for both the man and the woman. It can be an incredibly exciting pleasure for both parties, and it is something that many couples are curious about. As a man, you will experience being taken by your female partner at the same time as you experience pleasure through anal stimulation. There is thus also the possibility of experiencing the intense prostate orgasm.
As a woman, you can enjoy taking your male partner like never before, and with some strap-ons, the woman is also stimulated vaginally in the meantime. It can also be part of strapon BDSM play where the woman is the dominant and the man the submissive. Here the play can be combined with the use of a blind fold, bondage equipment as well as a whip. However, this does not necessarily have to be part of your game with pegging. It can also easily be practiced without elements of female domination.
Adult toys for pegging
Pegging is an activity that requires the right equipment. A strap-on dildo can look many ways and comes in many variants both with and without a harness. It may seem like a somewhat confusing market if you are completely new. Therefore, we also provide a clear review of the pegging sex toys available. We also provide good advice on how to find the right one for you based on your experience and wishes.
The 2024 pegging guide recommends: Strapon with harness
The most used type of sex toy for pegging is a harness with a dildo. A harness is a harness that sits around the waist and is attached to the woman with adjustable straps. A dildo is mounted in the harness. It is important to choose a harness that fits the wearer or that can be adjusted so that it fits properly. Without a good fit, there is a risk that the dildo will not fit properly and that the harness will be uncomfortable to wear. It is therefore well worth spending a little extra money and time to find the right strap-on harness. You can buy harnesses that come with or without a dildo. It is of course important to be aware of whether the dildo must be bought alongside or whether it comes with it.
It is also important to see if the dildo can be replaced. It can be nice, because that way you can always get the size and shape you want – and that’s a big advantage when you’re new. If you don’t think the included dildo works, you can always find a new one without having to change the harness. You can use all dildos with suction cups in a harness, as long as the circumference of the dildo fits in the hole in the harness.
Strapless strapon
A strapless strapon is a strap-on dildo without a harness. It is designed to be held in place by the woman clutching the small end. There are both advantages and disadvantages to this model. It requires a little more practice than normal strap-ons. The woman must be able to hold the dildo firmly, and this may well require a little practice and training. However, it also has the great advantage that both men and women are stimulated by it. The woman can feel the dildo against her G-spot, and many models are also designed with a point that stimulates the clitoris. It is also possible to get a strapless strapon dildo with vibrations. It can therefore increase the pleasure considerably for both him and her. If you already have experience with strap-ons, or are you ready for a challenge, it can be a really good idea with this type of sex toy for pegging.
A strapon dildo
If you already have a harness, there is a large selection of strapon dildos that you can use together. A strap-on dildo is actually just a dildo with a suction cup. The suction cup holds the dildo in place when it is placed in the harness hole. Different harnesses can have different mounts. With some it is just a hole into which the dildo is inserted, while with others there is a ring or buttons that hold it in place. The most important thing, of course, is that the dildo you choose fits in the hole of the harness. If you have a harness with a ring, it will often come with rings in different sizes.
It’s really smart, as you can then switch between larger and smaller dildos according to taste and preference. A strapped dildo is available like all other dildos both in different sizes but also in varying designs. They can be realistic, completely smooth or have a curved shape. The latter can be extra good for precise stimulation of the prostate.
The 2024 strapon guide: Which strap-on should I choose?
Now that you have been introduced to the different options available in pegging adult toys, the next question is – which one should I choose? It mainly depends on how experienced you are and what experience you want. The size of the dildo is of course always important, and in general, dildos for anal strapon penetration are smaller than dildos to be used vaginally. As a beginner, we would recommend a dildo with a maximum diameter of 2.5-3 cm. If you are more experienced, you can go up in size.
You can also consider whether you want the feeling of a realistic dildo or whether you prefer the completely smooth look. Next, it is important to find a good harness. Here it can be a good idea to go for quality, so that you get a harness that is made of a soft and comfortable material and has smart adjustments. Remember to also look at the measurements for the harness. It will often say which waist size it fits. If you are more experienced, or if it is important that the woman is also stimulated during your pegging, a strapless strap-on might be the answer. With practice, you can have a really good experience that can offer intense orgasms for both of you.
This is how you get started in 2024
Once you’ve mastered the equipment, you and your partner are ready to get started. But how do you do it? We take you through the preparations and considerations you can make before you really start pegging. You can also read about which positions are good for pegging and how you get the best experience with anal stimulation. It may be a good idea to read the 2024 guide to pegging for beginners together. It can also give you an opportunity to ask each other questions, and talk more about what wishes you each have.
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The 2024 guide to pegging: Preparation and cleaning
You can use some time to prepare your joint experience with pegging. Completely impractical, it is a good idea to have control of the equipment before you get started. Try the harness on and make sure you know how to adjust it and get it to fit properly. It is also a good idea to have the dildo mounted and ready. When it comes to anal sex and anal stimulation, many people are nervous about any “accidents”. It is otherwise very natural, and it is far from everyone who has a problem with it. But for others it can also be an obstacle and make it harder for them to relax.
If this is the case, you can use an anal douche for anal cleaning before pegging. About an hour before anal stimulation, you can fill your anal douche with water and spray it up the rectum. Squeeze the water into the toilet and repeat the process until the water that comes out is clear. If this is completely new to you, make sure you have plenty of time for it. It is also important that this does not become a taboo part of your pegging game, but something you can talk about openly, as it is just part of the preparation that must ensure that you get the best possible experience.
Lube for anal male sex and anal stimulation
Of course, you won’t get far without lube when it comes to pegging. It is also important that you use the right lubricant. When using sex toys, it is important that you use a water-based lubricant. Most dildos are made of silicone, TPE/TPR or PVC. These materials cannot withstand being used together with a silicone-based lubricant. There are a lot of delicious water-based lubricants that are made specifically for anal use. They will mostly have a thicker consistency and be more difficult to use than regular types. They may also contain caring and moisturizing ingredients that are beneficial for the thin skin around the anus.
Warm up before using a strap-on
Pegging is not the same as a quicky. It requires time, preparation and warm-up. In general, it is not recommended to have anal sex without warming up first. The skin around the anus must be warmed up and softened, and the recipient must also be relaxed and ready both physically and mentally. In fact, it can be nice to start with a nice warm bath. In this way, you get all the muscles in your body to relax – and you feel clean and ready at the same time. Also allow time for a good body massage, perhaps using a good massage oil. Here you can slowly work your way from the back down to the buttocks and quietly start massaging the area around the anus.
Wait to stick a finger or sex toy up. Right now it’s just a matter of warming up the area and getting him to relax completely. As an extra help, you can also use an anal relaxation spray. It contains natural ingredients that make the skin relax more and become more compliant. It is also obvious to get him really into the shock with a blowjob – at the same time as you caress the perineum and anus. When you have reached this far, you can also start using other anal sex toys, for example a vibrator for external use or a smaller anal plug. In this way, the anus is ready to be penetrated by a dildo with a larger circumference.
The 2024 guide to pegging recommends to start out slowly
You have just come so far that your pegging can really begin. Be aware that as a woman you cannot feel where you are, so to speak. It is therefore important to proceed slowly and be willing to communicate along the way. Ask how it feels and pay attention to your partner’s body language throughout. Feel free to take a few centimeters at a time and give your partner time to get used to the feeling before continuing. When you can feel a vacuum that almost sucks the dildo in, it means that you have passed the sphincter. It is only when he is completely ready and relaxed that you can start moving the dildo back and forth.
First time friendly positions for pegging
It can be a good idea to try different positions, the first few times you try pegging. It can make you smarter about what works best for you and what you prefer.
The most obvious is probably a pegging doggystyle position as this is the most preferred position for men in general, according to a survey conducted by StraponFan. Here the woman has good space and access, and it can also be a comfortable position for both of them to stand in. The man can easily pull away if it goes too fast, and the woman can easily control the pace. Another option is the missionary position, where the man lies down.
It can be nice for the man to lie down, as he can completely relax here. It is also possible for you to look each other in the eyes, and this can make it easier to communicate in terms of pace. It is also easier for the woman to stimulate the penis in this position. However, the position makes it a little more difficult to reach with the dildo. Here, a solution could be to put a pillow under the man so that he is lifted up a bit.
For inspiration you can our article: 3 Pegging Positions.
Get a good experience with pegging
We have now covered quite a bit in this guide to pegging. To make it all a little easier, we will summarize here some of the most important points that will ensure you the best experience. You can always go back and read more about what you need. You are of course also always welcome to contact us with questions about pegging or connect with us on Twitter for advice and elaboration on our 2024 guide to pegging for beginners.
Find the right equipment
The equipment must of course be in working order. It is important that you find a harness that fits and that can be adjusted so that it sits comfortably. It may be a good idea to choose a harness where the dildo can be replaced. That way you can get the most out of it. It’s also smart if the included dildo doesn’t work for you. There are many dildos that can be used together with a harness, and you can certainly find one that suits you in terms of size, shape and design. Feel free to take your time to find the right strapon equipment and do not compromise on quality, as this can ensure you a good and durable product.
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Be attentive and communicate
Pegging can be a wild experience for the man, and it is important that the woman is aware of his signals throughout the process. It requires patience and attention, and it can be a good idea to ask continuously. Since you have no feeling in the dildo, it is precisely through his signals that you can feel whether it is going too fast or too slow (preferably the latter than the former). It may be that he only needs to be penetrated a few inches the first few times, after which you can continuously go deeper and deeper.
Share & talk about your experience with a strap-on
It is important to talk about new experiences – and pegging will be a completely new experience for many. What did you like, what didn’t you like. Was there anything that didn’t work at all, and is there anything you need to do more. It can be a really good idea to talk about how it was afterwards. Both so that it can be even better next time, and so that the experience can bring you closer to each other. Since pegging reverses the familiar roles, there is probably also a lot to learn, both as the new giver and the new receiver. Therefore, be open and receptive to wishes or suggestions – it will only make your sex life better. And if need to know how other similar couples are doing it, we highly recommend you get some perspective by watching our Real Couple Pegging Porn, as you will find couples like yourself doing the exactly same thing.
The pegging 2024 guide extra comments
Not all sex toys can be used anally. Sex toys for anal penetration must always have a so-called stopper. This means that it has a bottom that is extra wide. It stops the sex toy from rising further than is comfortable, or in the worst case completely disappearing up the anus. You can of course always use an ordinary vibrator for external stimulation of the anus, but if it is to be used for penetration, it is important that it is made for the purpose. By using anal sex toys, you can enjoy the experience to the fullest.
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